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I do not intend to beat anyone, although sometimes you would like to hit someone in the head in repentance. But let's get to the topic. And today's topic will be criticizing others.
A person who criticizes others reveals one feature very clearly. This is low self esteem. The second feature that we can immediately notice in such people is their unreasonable sense of self-importance to others. Criticism has one goal - to take some energy from others and feel better. There is nothing more that criticism brings. When someone comes to me and, when not asked about my opinion, starts criticizing me or criticizing what I do, I know that, first of all, that person has nothing better to do, and secondly, thinks that their opinion is extremely important to me and necessarily he must inform me of his thoughts regarding me. So if anyone has not figured out yet, I solemnly declare - no, you are not as important as you think and leave your thoughts on others to yourself.
First of all, a happy and contented person will never waste time on such nonsense as a critic. This person has enough of common sense and so much modesty that he knows that his opinion on certain topics is worth keeping inside, because first of all that person is busy enough with his important matters that he does not even have time to think about it. Secondly, he knows that he certainly has some areas in his life that need work and improvement and focuses on it. Thirdly, he feels so good with himself that he does not have to value himself at the expense of others by pointing out all their mistakes. Fourthly, finally, he understands that his very important opinion about others is only important to him, because others care about it on average. And fifthly, he understands that it adds nothing to other people's lives, it's negative and makes another person feel bad. But if someone likes to be such a vampire and suck energy from others, you probably can't do much. If I go to the YouTube channel of the person who tells in my opinion BS, I will not write negative comments about what I think about her, how hopeless she is, that she should be more smart, think more, etc. I will just stop watching it. I can think of different things about this person, but will I self-count myself and watch something that makes me nervous or irritated? And then this person will write a corrigendum, start translating and sending negative comments to me. That I'm stupid and she's not. And then it will turn me on even more and I will start looking for evidence that she is wrong to feel better. And then we will organize a protest against each other and we will beat each other with sticks. You know what? I prefer to eat watermelon and listen to something that I like :). And immediately life becomes cooler.
In my opinion you should alaways be honest. You must tell the truth. But only when someone asks us for our opinion. Such people who like to criticize others without their direct request should try to approach a 2-meter-high peasant who came straight from the gym and has a bull-sized pit bull on a leash and start criticizing him. That he looks like a dull coke in addition bald and probably has a small dick, because steroids have their consequences. For sure, such a person will quickly find out why it is not worth doing it :). He may have to put in new teeth, spend a lot of money and explain his stupidity in the environment. So if someone asks me about my opinion on a topic, I will always say what I think, regardless of whether someone likes what I say or not. But I will never go to anyone and say: you know what, you look fat in this dress. And you have a flat ass at all, and I don't know at all how you can have a guy. God forbid. It personally amuses me, because I always wonder how such a person turns up and is shaking to prove to me that he is right. And prove it! Bless you :)
So the question here is, can't we say something negative about others when we feel the need of expressing our opinion? And yes, we can. We can do many things. You can beat your wife wen you are drunk. You can kill small puppies because you have nothing to do with them. You can eat chocolate from morning to night. You can cheat and lie to your girlfriend. You can do many things, the question is what for? What for and what will the consequences be? And do we want to face them. Do we want to be a pathetic man who shows his tiny self-esteem on the plate and loses all respect in our eyes? Do we want to be perceived by others as a person who adds nothing to the lives of others, on the contrary? Do we want everyone around us to know how unhappy we are and we cling to such ways that we can dig up something for ourselves? The decision belongs to everyone ego of us.
Greetings to all critics and I strongly encourage you to think about your behavior :)